What does it truly mean to be seen as fully human in a world that often overlooks disability?
In this thought-provoking episode of We’re Not Stumped, host Mike Bolland welcomes back Dr. Stephanie W. Cawthon—an acclaimed deaf author, speaker, and researcher—for an honest and insightful conversation about identity, accessibility, and belonging. With ASL interpreters Amanda Ford and Steven Nugent joining, Dr. Cawthon shares the personal and cultural impact of her book Disability is Human, a work that has deeply influenced Mike’s own journey.
They discuss the challenges of growing up with hearing loss in a time when ASL access was limited, and how this shaped language development and education. The conversation dives into important issues like the “disability tax,” identity formation, and the hidden barriers many disabled individuals encounter, especially in entry-level jobs. They also unpack the effects of societal attitudes, exploring concepts like “helper syndrome” and “stalker syndrome,” which create subtle but real burdens for people with disabilities.
Dr. Cawthon highlights that while the ADA was a critical step toward inclusion, achieving true accessibility demands ongoing shifts in mindset, mentorship, and opportunity. This episode invites listeners to rethink disability—not as a problem to be fixed, but as a vital part of the human experience.
Disability is Human Book: https://www.amazon.com/Disability-Human-Vital-Accessibility-Everyday/dp/1954233299
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In this powerful episode of the We're Not Stumped podcast, host Mike Bolland talks with Billy Parker, a former welder who lost both arms in a life-changing accident. Billy shares his incredible journey of resilience, finding a new purpose, and his mission to promote workplace safety to prevent similar tragedies. Billy discusses his advocacy work, personal growth, and how he empowers others to prioritize safety in all aspects of life. His inspiring story is a testament to the human spirit's ability to overcome adversity and make a meaningful impact.
In this episode of the We're Not Stumped podcast, host Mike Bolland sits down with Kelly Grey-Parker, a quadrilateral amputee who lost her limbs at just one year old. Kelly shares her incredible journey of resilience and how she's dedicated her life to supporting others through the organization MOVING FORWARD Limb Loss Networking Group. Discover how Kelly's story inspires hope, and learn about the impact of peer support in fostering confidence and independence for amputees. She also shares the story of her marriage to Billy Parker, a bilateral upper limb amputee. Together, they navigate life’s challenges with love, humor, and an unshakable bond built on mutual understanding.
Join us for the 100th episode of We're Not Stumped! Host Mike Bolland reflects on the incredible journey so far, and the lessons learned from celebrating resilience and overcoming challenges. In this special milestone episode, Mike also walks listeners through the process of becoming a guest on the podcast. Whether you’re a longtime listener or new to the podcast, this episode is filled with gratitude, inspiration, and exciting updates for the future. Thank you for being part of our journey—here’s to the next 100!



