In this episode of the We’re Not Stumped, we sit down with Kelly J. Mendenhall—an accomplished author, speaker, and advocate—to explore her transformative journey from a thriving career in nonprofit fundraising to becoming a disabled entrepreneur and patient advocate. Diagnosed with rare spinal cord conditions in 2017, Kelly faced a medical mystery that led her to redefine her life and purpose.
Kelly shares her experiences navigating the healthcare system, the challenges of living with invisible disabilities, and how she channeled her struggles into writing and advocacy. Her memoir, “Skin in the Game: The Stories My Tattoos Tell,” delves into her personal narrative, offering insights into resilience and self-discovery.
Kelly’s dedication to empowering others is evident in her efforts to raise awareness about chronic pain, mental health, and the importance of patient-centered care.
Join us for an inspiring conversation that highlights the power of storytelling, the importance of self-advocacy, and the resilience of the human spirit. Whether you’re interested in personal development, healthcare advocacy, or the art of memoir writing, this episode offers valuable insights and motivation.
Key Topics:
- Kelly’s transition from nonprofit fundraising to becoming a disabled entrepreneur
- Navigating the complexities of rare spinal cord conditions and chronic pain
- The inspiration behind her memoir, “Skin in the Game: The Stories My Tattoos Tell”
- Strategies for self-advocacy within the healthcare system
Don’t miss this episode filled with wisdom, courage, and actionable advice for anyone facing life’s unexpected challenges.
Connect with Kelly J. Mendenhall:
Website: kellyjmendenhall.com
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