In this episode, we sit down with Vanessa Abraham, a certified Speech-Language Pathologist whose life took an unexpected turn when she became the patient. After a sudden illness left her paralyzed and unable to speak, Vanessa faced the daunting task of reclaiming her voice and identity.
Vanessa shares her harrowing experience of battling Post-Intensive Care Syndrome (PICS), the emotional toll of being unable to communicate, and her path to recovery. Her story is not just one of survival but of transformation, leading her to become an advocate for ICU survivors and author of the memoir Speechless: How a Speech Therapist Lost Her Ability to Speak and Her Silent Struggle to Reclaim Her Voice and Life.
In this episode, we discuss:
- The sudden onset of her illness and ICU experience
- The psychological impact of PICS
- Her journey from patient back to practitioner
- Insights from her memoir, Speechless
- Her mission to educate others about the unseen challenges ICU survivors face
Vanessa’s resilience and dedication to helping others navigate similar challenges are truly inspiring. Whether you’re a healthcare professional, a survivor, or someone interested in stories of human strength, this episode offers valuable insights.
🔗 Learn more about Vanessa’s work: Aneu Healing – https://aneuhealing.com/
📘 Check out her memoir: Speechless on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/Speechless-Therapist-Ability-Struggle-Reclaim/dp/B0DS96R6XT
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