In this episode of We’re Not Stumped, host Mike Bolland explores the power of the “I don’t give a crap” attitude — and how it can transform life after limb loss.
Mike shares how letting go of judgment and embracing unapologetic confidence helps amputees find freedom, purpose, and joy. From learning to laugh at setbacks to defying expectations, this mindset is about living boldly — not bitterly.
💬 Topics covered:
✅ Why confidence matters more than comparison
✅ Turning self-doubt into strength
✅ How humor and attitude fuel resilience
✅ Real stories from the limb loss community
🎧 Tune in, get inspired, and start saying “I don’t give a crap” — in the best way possible.
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