In this dynamic episode of We’re Not Stumped, host Mike Bolland sits down with Jessica Cox, a trailblazing pilot, martial artist, speaker, and advocate born without arms. Jessica shares her journey of overcoming obstacles, embracing her uniqueness, and using her story to inspire others around the world.
Jessica Cox reflects on her early years, describing how her parents navigated the uncertainty of raising a child without arms. Though her mother initially placed hope in prosthetics, she came to realize that what truly mattered was nurturing Jessica’s confidence and independence. Jessica recalls her first day of kindergarten, a moment filled with both excitement and fear, but also the comfort of knowing her parents and teachers were there to support her.
Growing up, Jessica experienced both acceptance and challenges. She remembers how her classmates were generally supportive, but she still encountered the occasional harsh comment or curious stare. Her mother’s advice to focus on her strengths rather than the negativity helped her develop resilience and self-confidence. College became a pivotal time in her life—a period of self-discovery where she began to embrace her identity and find her voice.
As the conversation shifts to independence, Jessica shares her experiences with prosthetics and why she ultimately chose not to use them, finding that her feet gave her more freedom and ability. She also recounts the challenge of having her driver’s license suspended after someone questioned her ability to drive safely. Determined to prove herself, she fought to regain her license—a victory that reinforced her belief in perseverance and self-advocacy.
Jessica’s passions for martial arts and flying are also central to her story. She began practicing Taekwondo at age 10, eventually earning her black belt and meeting her husband through the martial arts community. She also overcame her fear of flying—an experience that motivated her to become the world’s first armless pilot. Though the process was difficult, earning her pilot’s license became a symbol of her determination to face fears head-on and inspire others to do the same.
Beyond her personal accomplishments, Jessica Cox is deeply committed to helping others. Through her nonprofit, Right Footed Foundation International, she mentors and supports children without arms, encouraging them to pursue their dreams and believe in their potential. She remains connected to the children her foundation serves, celebrating their victories and offering guidance through their challenges.
Looking ahead, Jessica shares her excitement about continuing her speaking career and working toward her goal of building an airplane that will allow her to fly more frequently and independently. For her, life is about constantly reaching for new horizons and inspiring others to break through their own limitations.
This episode is a celebration of resilience, self-belief, and living without limits. Join Mike Bolland and Jessica Cox for an unforgettable conversation that reminds us all of the power of determination and the joy of embracing life’s possibilities.
Jessica Cox Website: https://jessicacox.com
Disarm Your Limits: The Flight Formula to Lift You to Success and Propel You to the Next Horizon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0986362700?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_4935GA05YABST490VW4R
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